COMMUNICATION
SECRETS
· Communication is far
more than what you say. It’s how you say.
· It’s about listening
and talking and the act of mutually disclosing inner feelings and thoughts to
others.
· Involves
intrapersonal communication, understanding yourself and participating in
effective self-communication.
· Listening goes beyond
attentively waiting for other people to stop talking. It really means getting
inside of their hearts and minds and experiencing life situations
· Being “alive” is an
extraordinary opportunity for learning and experiencing. However most people
never find their purpose or their reason for being here.
· Your job is to make
your company and yourself as successful as possible. That’s the Theme of this
Presentation!!
· Effective and
persuasive communication is the greatest of all the keys to success.
· Success = Talking so
people listen and listening so people talk
· People are attracted
to the people who make them feel secure, free and happy.
· By making others feel
special; they will realize how special you are.
Ask basic questions:
· How do you talk, so
people listen to what you have to say?
· How do you inspire
people to communicate your point of view?
· How do you encourage
people in your life who currently ignore your ideas may reconsider and take
notice?
· What simple things
can you do so people will pay attention to what U have to say at home, at work,
among professional circles?
What
Managers normally have to communicate?
· Announcement &
Spokes Persons.
· Motivating Lecture.
· Explaining Plans,
Decisions, Method, Problems, Help, feedback
· Applications, Memos,
Proposals, Condolence, Requests
· Informal & Demi
Official Letters
· Phone Calls &
Video conferencing.
· Negotiations,
Seminars, Presentations.
· Appreciations /
Warnings / Counseling, Grievance Redressal.
· Party talk /
Etiquette / Social skills, Dressing up / grooming.
· Group discussions
,Debates & Public speeches
· Interviews &
interviewing (questionaires, CVs, dressing, emotional preparation
· Appointments
Managers’ Roles.
Mitzberg has
described the Managers job in terms of 3 types of roles – interpersonal,
informational and decision-making.
Interpersonal: Managers spend 45 percent of their time with peers, about 45 percent with people outside their company and 10 percent with superiors.
Informational Roles: Managers exchange information about jobs and responsibilities with peers, subordinates and other personal contacts.
Decision-making Roles: Managers implement new projects, handle problems and allocate resources.
Kearns, “The key to simplifying the bureaucracy is an efficient communication system. Workers motivation is impossible without effective communication. The globalization of the business environment complicates the communication process and acts as a barrier to effective communication. Be selective – Can clog the channels with insignificant trivia & may harm operation by releasing wrong information.”
Information employees want to know
· How their jobs should
be performed.
· How effectively they
are performing their jobs?
· How much they will be
paid?
· Company policies and
rules that directly affect their jobs.
· Changes in conditions
within the firm that might affect them.
GROUP
DISCUSSION
Purpose
· Personality Traits
Gauged in Group Discussion
· Ability to interact
in a team
· Communications Skills
· Reasoning ability.
· Leadership skills.
· Initiative &
Enthusiasm.
· Assertiveness.
· Flexibility.
· Nurturing &
Coaching Ability.
· Creativity.
· Ability to think in
ones feet.
Types
of Topics for Group Discussion
§ Factual Topics.
§ Controversial Topics.
§ Abstract Topics.
§ Political.
§ Economics.
§ Education.
§ Environmental.
§ Ethics & Law.
§ Technology Related.
How to prepare for the Group Discussion
§ Introducing the topic
§ Listening in & butting in.
§ Agreeing & giving examples, Disagreeing & giving
examples.
§ Looking on both sides of a coin. Intervening to get a
balanced view.
§ Intervening during a conflict, Co-operating & leading.
§ No cornering or making fun of participants
§ Intervening & giving a chance to a timid participant.
§ Giving examples & experiences
§ Concluding (has been vigorous, interesting not your own
view, no final decision )
How to prepare for a Telephonic
Interview
§ Isolate yourself; make sure the caller can hear you clearly.
§ Make sure at least 20 minutes is available or schedule
another time for the call.
§ Be sure who will call who. It is recommended that you offer
to call the company.
§ During the call standup, walk around and smile. All these
things make a big difference
§ At the conclusion, ask the interviewer about next steps and
timing of their hiring process.
§ If you are interested, ask for a face-to-face interview.
§ COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Tell Me About
Yourself? What do you know about our company? How did you learn about this
position? What is our current salary? What are your compensation requirements?
Why are you looking for a new position? What are your strengths? What are your
weaknesses?
QUESTIONS YOU MAY ASK
-What is your position with this company?
-What is your position with this company?
- How much time would
you like to speak on the phone?
- What position are you considering me for?
- What position are you considering me for?
- What are the key
things you'd like to learn about my background?
- What business
imperatives are driving the need for this position?
- What are the top
challenges that I'll face in this job?
- What are the
characteristics of people who are most successful in your company?
- What are the key
deliverables and outcomes that this position must achieve?
- What additional
information would you like me to provide?
- What concern s do
you have at this point?
- When is the best
time to follow up with you?
How to prepare emotionally for the
Interview
§ “Hiring is an emotional process for both the candidate and
the interviewer.
§ The hiring process is shrouded with a veneer of logic “to
hire the best qualified person”, but in reality it is grounded with emotion.
§ Your enthusiasm, confidence and energy will determine
whether or not you get hired.
§ Normally the most qualified person never gets hired.
§ This is because personality “fit” and the candidate's
personal qualities are extremely important & give support to the
interviewers.
§ Interviewers receive and interpret all inputs coming from
you and evaluated your emotional state.
§ When you are feeling great you project a positive image of
yourself and are more “likable” and “hire-able.”
SUGGESTIONS:
§ Exercise – This gets your blood flowing to your brain &
improves your mood instantly.
§ Listen to Music, Write / repeat Inspirational Phases,
Imagine doing your favorite activity.
§ Remember a time when you were absolutely at your best.
§ Imagine how it will feel when you have landed this fabulous
position.
§ Get ready to be hired, and you will be hired.
How Managers Can Become Better
Communicators
Breakdowns in
communication, lowered productivity.
Communication skill can be learned.
Empathy, Listening, Reading skills, Observations, Word choice, Body
languages and Action are all involved in improving communication.
Empathy
Does not mean you
necessarily agree, understand why that person speaks and acts in a certain
way. “feel” the bitterness.
Listening
- Constant talking
interferes with listening and learning.
Average speaking speed is about 120 – 200 words per minute. Comprehend words is more than four times the
speed at which the words are spoken.
- Evaluate listening –
free time is devoted to evaluating the speakers remarks.
- Projective listening
– To fully utilize their time, project themselves into the position of the
speaker. Carl Rogers suggested “Each
person can speak for himself only after he has related the ideas and feelings
of the previous speaker accurately and to that speaker’s satisfaction”.
Reading Skills
Through Training,
Reading speeds can be doubled and tripled with little or no loss in
comprehension.
Observation
Some Managers are
adept at assessing the atmosphere of an organization merely by strolling
through its work place.
Word Choice
Simple and Common
words.
Body language
§ 90 percent of first impression.
§ Crossed legs or ankles and folded arms – indicate a
defensive posture or a dislike of the situation. Open position may indicate the opposite as
may leaning forward or backward in a relaxed manner.
§ A worker facing away, hands in pockets – negative
posture.
§ Free use of hand gesturing – indicates highly emotional,
animated or relaxed relatively carefree.
§ Tense individual – body rigid.
§ Hard gestures – Positive attitude
§ Facial expression is usually understood. Emotions like anger, interest, happiness,
disgust, contempt, surprise, fear and love.
§ A frown, a sarcastic smile, a blank stare and mean to the
employee that the manager is not interested.
§ Sweaty hands or nail biting may mean that the workers feel
ill at ease.
§ Actions
§ Desk moved
§ Deliberately restricting their output.
§ Machinery that could do the work of this crew.
§ Guidelines for Dealing with Communication
§ Have a plan.
§ Get organized.
§ Develop the message from the receiver’s point of view.
§ Select the best way to communicate the message.
§ Look for feedback.
§ Follow up.
§ Do not assume too much.
§ Be a good listener.
§ Use language that other can understand.
§ Observe non verbal cues.
Special Skills for Effective Communication
Conversation Control
§ How to handle personal criticism
§ Put forward a proposal.
§ Register a protest.
§ Disagree without being aggressive.
§ How to be creative.
§ How to negotiate.
§ How to buy and sell.
§ How to interview and praise.
§ How to contribute to a meeting.
Importance of Conversation Control
§ Criticism with confidence
§ Get the correct information quickly
§ Talking to people in a convincing way
§ Objections and Opposition
§ Where people are coming
§ Interviewing and appraisal
§ Use the dynamics of conversation for both problem solving
and social use with friends
Benefits of Conversation Control
§ Managers often tell that the major problems they face are in
responding to the concerns and problems of others and trying to influence
people.
§ To be able to manage conflict.
§ To negotiate more effectively.
§ To develop listening skills.
§ To persuade and influence
§ To get people to work together
§ To facilitate problem solving.
§ To get people to think more creatively about the job.
§ To get others more involved in planning and implementation.
Recognition of Cues and Clues
All conversations and
discussions are full of cues and clues as well as signs and signals. Others who do not hear and see them will miss
the opportunity and the conversation will probably fail.
Disguised Messages
§ Very often people give some of their most important clues
through non-verbal behaviour. The shrug,
the hand over, the mouth, the lean backwards or forwards in the chair, clenched
fist
§ A cue is a word or phrase you see when you want to give an
indication that something is important to you.
§ A clue is a similar set of words, only the key point is that
the words as spoken by someone else
Expect Cues and Clues
We all miss cues and
clues because often we are not quick enough to observe and understand. We need to listen to the important words
people use. Cues and Clues are difficult
to handle because they are not always directly visible.
Identification of Cues and Clues
Basic principles are:
§ First, listen carefully when people use the words “I”, “Me”
or “My”. At that point they are speaking
about the most important person in the world – themselves.
§ Second, listen carefully if people follow up comments about
themselves with strong adjectives such as “disappointed”, “annoyed”, “worried”,
“angry” etc.
§ Third, listen for words which imply the other person is
under pressure to do or achieve something.
§ Fourth, listen when people express doubts and concerns.
Signs and Signals
§ Signs refer to the behavioural indicators such a the pointed
finger to emphasize a point, the hands over the mouth to guard against the
wrong word or the eyes looking forward to help are sings etc.
§ Signals refer to the behavioural indicators others give to
you. When a person is relaxed and at
ease he will usually smile more and nod their head. You can therefore observe, without a word
being spoken, the attitude of the person.
How to prepare & behave during the Interview
§ Read the job description and company profile carefully.
§ Ask the employer for more details.
§ Write down the name & contact number of the recruiter to
call back later.
§ Find out more about the company, the job and the industry.
§ Be punctual for your interview. If you cannot attend contact
§ Carry your resume, transcripts, certificates and relevant
documents.
§ Look into the eyes of the interviewer and act confidently.
§ Be honest and enthusiastic and highlight your strengths.
§ Show loyalty to old employer and fulfill responsibilities
before joining.
§ Send the employer a Thank You email after the interview.
§ Follow up on the status after two or three days showing
interest.
What Information to gather about the Company
§ Industry
§ Company position in the industry
§ Competitors
§ Turn over
§ Market Share.
§ What kind of a job it is.
§ What kind of a person they are looking for
§ Who is your future Boss
§ Who will interview
How to Dress up, Travel & Organize Time
§ Males
§ Females.
§ Impression at first sight
§ Deodorant/Perfume
§ What to carry
§ Pen , Highlighter, Certificates, Visiting Card
§ Mobile Off
What is the Interviewer looking For?
§ Personality
§ Motivation
§ Attitude
§ General Awareness
§ Qualification
§ Job Skills
§ Drafting Skills
§ Industry Knowledge
§ General Knowledge
§ Team Spirit
§ Leadership Qualities
§ Communication Skills
§ Social Skills
§ Flexibility
§ Alertness
§ Decision Making
§ Go Getting Attitude
§ Conflict Management Skills
§ Problem Solving Skills
§ Extra Curricular Activities
§ Loyalty, Integrity
§ Honesty
§ Patience
§ Initiative
§ Enthusiasm
§ Artistic Skills
§ Creativity
§ Negotiating Skills
§ Presentation Skills.
How to hold the Interviewer’s Attention?
Attention Level – 0
to 10 Seconds is 100% , 10 to 60 Seconds it falls to 50%, 60 to 90 it falls to almost 10% if there are
no interruptions. Near the end of your long response the interviewer starts to
formulate their next question unless you keep them engaged. By asking a
question you promote two-way communications and minimize the risk of talking
too much. This helps you ensure they are listening while you talk.
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF
§ Brief overview of most relevant experience. in reverse
chronological order)
§ Highlight experience, education, "results-
focused", "persistence" "detail oriented“
§ Ask question to uncover interviewer's job requirements
- "Target Question“
§ Keep your response brief, between 60 and 90 seconds.
§ Can ask the interviewer ask question e.g. "Am I giving
you too much detail at this point?“ or
What parts of my background would you like to discuss first?
EXAMPLE
"I am a presently ‘Senior Executive
Accounts’. I have a lot of experience in
tax issues and audit. (Expertise and skills)
My experience includes carrying internal audit for ISO 9000 and
resolving tax issues for the last 2 years (insert knowledge or skill) I
have worked in the Construction Industry and t6he Media Industry. My background
also includes roles as Junior Accountant (position title), Senior Accountant
(position title) and Senior Auditor (position title). My
education/certifications include CA (degree or certification) and M. Com.
I would like to be described by my Colleagues as ‘results focused’ &
‘details oriented. Highlights of my professional accomplishments include
winning the “Employee of the Year Award in 2003 and the ‘Best Suggestion Award
in 2004
TYPES OF QUESTIONS FOR KNOWLEDGE WORKER
1. Do you own a personal
computer and, if so, what kind?
2. What software do you
know how to operate?
3. Do you have a fax
modem? Yes__________
No__________
4. Do you use an e-mail
program? Yes__________
No__________
5. What literature that
relates to your profession do you read, including books, newspapers, trade
magazines, etc.?
6. What classes or
seminars have you taken on your own during the last three years to advance your
career and personal growth?
7. What efforts have you
made at "networking" to advance your career?
8. What volunteer or
non-profit activities do you engage in?
9. Where do you see your
profession going in the next five to ten years?
10. Where do you see the industry going?
11. What are you doing to stay on top of
these changes?
12. What are the most important things to
you about any job? Is it the pay, the
opportunities, feelings of self-worth, fellow employees, location, benefits,
etc.?
13. What efforts do you make to keep
yourself healthy? Do you exercise, eat a
proper diet, refrain from smoking, take nutritional supplements, meditate,
etc.?
14. Who do you consider to be your
professional role model? Why do you consider this person to be so special? How can you improve on that person's
contributions?
15. When it comes to getting paid, are you
the type of person that is more interested in a steady paycheck with good
benefits or would you rather work for a company where there may be greater risk
but yet greater rewards in terms of both pay and job satisfaction? Please explain
16. What type of incentive programs have
you found to work best?
FROM THE INTERVIEWER’S MANUAL
How an Interviewer listens to you
There's a lot to
listen for in a conversation. When a person speaks, listen to what's NOT being
said, as well as what's being said. The purpose of an interview isn't merely to
learn about an applicant's skills or background you've already gleaned this
information from their resume. Listen beneath the words to who a person is.
Listen for the qualities that most matter to the position and to the company.
1. Confidence & Self-Acceptance
Beneath the surface conversation, listen to who a person is. Listen for how comfortable a person is during the silences within a conversation. All conversation waxes and wanes during the pauses in a conversation, listen for the level of confidence and self-acceptance a person has. When s/he pauses to gather her/his thoughts prior to answering your question, do you sense nervousness or anxiety? The level of comfort a person exhibits during the pauses within a conversation says a lot. Listen for the level of confidence and self-acceptance beneath a person's word.
Beneath the surface conversation, listen to who a person is. Listen for how comfortable a person is during the silences within a conversation. All conversation waxes and wanes during the pauses in a conversation, listen for the level of confidence and self-acceptance a person has. When s/he pauses to gather her/his thoughts prior to answering your question, do you sense nervousness or anxiety? The level of comfort a person exhibits during the pauses within a conversation says a lot. Listen for the level of confidence and self-acceptance beneath a person's word.
2. Follow Through & Persistence
Follow through and persistence is the unique ability to engage in a project and see it through - at all costs. The downside of persistence is the fine line that exists, separating persistence from stubbornness. Think about the qualities that are essential to the position - then, upgrade those qualities, envisioning a top performer in the position. Identify the desired qualities for the job - then pursue a line of questioning that will allow the quality to emerge. What line of questioning will bring forth the quality you're looking for?
To ask the applicant
to "tell me about your follow through abilities" isn't going to
reveal anything but an artificial response. Use your own experiences to
identify impactful questions. What line of inquiry would bring out YOUR
perseverance? A question about personal commitments and passions, or a question
about your project management skills? My guess is that you'll learn more about
a person's persistence by asking them about their passions vs. previous job
responsibilities.
3. Integrity
Integrity is about being responsible for our actions and inactions; it's about keeping one's word -- to oneself and to others. It's about being responsible for handling whatever happens, and making adjustments so problems don't reoccur. When one is responsible, one doesn't blame or complain. Listen for how the applicant responded to situations in the past. Does prior behavior demonstrate responsibility, integrity and keeping one's word? Listen for level of ownership and the attitude one has in accepting responsibility. (Hint: You'll also learn about their leadership qualities in this conversation.)
4. Creativity
The most tedious jobs
benefit when performed by a person who thinks creatively. Listen for the level
of comfort in considering and/or behaving in an "out of the box" way.
Don't confuse style with creativity. Creative thinkers can present very
"ordinary." Listen to a person's mind when assessing their
creativity. A bold dresser who looks "creative" might very well be a
rigid thinker. A conservatively dressed person might be an extraordinary
creative thinker. Don't let appearances fool you.
5. Standards
We're all motivated
by our values, whether we realize it or not. Values are what motivates and
sustains us. They are the core of who a person is. What standards motivate the
applicant? Does s/he seem to value working hard and getting the job done at all
costs, or does s/he place priority on communication? Is s/he motivated by
setting standards of excellence and quality, or are her/his motivators about
connectedness and team? Listen for what drives a person. By doing so, you'll
have a better sense of "job fit."
6. Clarity of Communication
Communication isn't just about the words a person uses. It's also not only about the tone or affect the speaker uses. Communication is about being 100% responsible for the other person's listening. Communication is also about making a profound connection with another human being. It's about establishing rapport and being such an excellent listener that your responses perfectly answer the needs of the conversation.
How strong a connection has the applicant made with you? Did the person present authentically or were they playing a role to impress you? Listen for how well a person listens and connects with you. This is a highly valuable skill with enormous benefit for your team and organization.
7. Personal Philosophies & Beliefs
What are the beliefs of the person? What messages do they embrace or are passionate about? A person's beliefs about opportunity will generate activity based upon their particular perspective and beliefs. Is their glass half full or half empty? A person's personal philosophy about life will tell you something about how they'll approach the challenges of the job. Guide the conversation to allow the person's belief system to emerge. Then listen for it.
8. Commitment
The word commit comes
from the Latin word committere, which means to connect and entrust. Listen for
a demonstration that the person has the ability to connect and entrust her/him
self consistently to your product, service or organization. The ability to
connect and entrust oneself is a key ingredient for rapport and building trust.
Commitment is the quality that generates a consistent connection with another -
an ability that benefits all types of relationships. Listen for evidence that
the person can follow through on the connections they make - this is where
commitment is found.
Connection +
Consistency = Commitment
9. Passion
Success comes effortlessly to the person who's doing work they're passionate about. But, must a salesperson be passionate about their product to be successful? Maybe not. Listen for what the person's most passionate about - is s/he a people person or is s/he passionate about analysis? What motivates a person and lights their passion? When do their eyes sparkle with excitement? The more aligned a person is to their job, the more passionate and successful they and you will be.
10. Authenticity
Warren Bennis, professor and noted author of more than 20 books on leadership, change & management and who's advised 4 U.S. Presidents, speaks about authenticity as a core ingredient of leadership. He says: "Becoming a leader is synonymous with becoming yourself. It is that simple. It is that difficult."
How genuine is the
person during the interview process? How comfortable with oneself does she/he
appear? Authenticity is about being real & about being genuine - listen for
conflicts that get in the way of a person's authenticity.
Behavior Based Interview Questions
§ Are you looking for behavior based interviewing questions?
While the questions and behavior characteristics listed below are by no means
comprehensive, it might be just the jump-start you're looking for. Try these…
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around
Leadership:
§ Tell me about a time when you accomplished something
significant that wouldn't have happened if you had not been there to make it
happen.
§ Tell me about a time when you were able to step into a
situation, take charge, muster support and achieve good results.
§ Describe for me a time when you may have been disappointed
in your behavior.
§ Tell me about a time when you had to discipline or fire a
friend.
§ Tell me about a time when you've had to develop leaders
under you.
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around
Initiative and Follow-through:
§ Give me an example of a situation where you had to overcome
major obstacles to achieve your objectives.
§ Tell me about a goal that you set that took a long time to
achieve or that you are still working towards.
§ Tell me about a time when you won (or lost) an important
contract.
§ Tell me about a time when you used your political savvy to
push a program through that you really believed in.
§ Tell me about a situation that you had significant impact on
because of your follow-through.
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around Thinking
and Problem Solving:
§ Tell me about a time when you had to analyze facts quickly,
define key issues, and respond immediately or develop a plan that produced good
results.
§ If you had to do that activity over again, how would you do
it differently?
§ Describe for me a situation where you may have missed an
obvious solution to a problem.
§ Tell me about a time when you anticipated potential problems
and developed preventative measures.
§ Tell me about a time when you surmounted a major obstacle.
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around
Communication:
§ Tell me about a time when you had to present a proposal to a
person in authority and were able to do this successfully.
§ Tell me about a situation where you had to be persuasive and
sell your idea to someone else.
§ Describe for me a situation where you persuaded team members
to do things your way. What was the effect?
§ Tell me about a time when you were tolerant of an opinion
that was different from yours.
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around Working
Effectively with Others:
§ Give me an example that would show that you've been able to
develop and maintain productive relations with others, though there were
differing points of view.
§ Tell me about a time when you were able to motivate others
to get the desired results.
§ Tell me about a difficult situation with a co-worker, and
how you handled it.
§ Tell me about a time when you played an integral role in
getting a team (or work group) back on track.
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around Ability
to Work in Varying Work Conditions (stress, changing deadlines, etc.):
§ Tell me about a time when you worked effectively under
pressure.
§ Tell me about a time when you were unable to complete a
project on time.
§ Tell me about a time when you had to change work mid-stream
because of changing organizational priorities.
§ Describe for me what you do to handle stressful situations.
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around
Delegation:
§ Tell me about a time when you delegated a project
effectively.
§ Tell me about a time when you did a poor job of delegating.
§ Describe for me a time when you had to delegate to a person
with a full workload, and how you went about doing it.
§ If You're Looking For Behaviors that Revolve Around Customer
Service:
§ Tell me about a time when you had to deal with an irate
customer.
§ Tell me about one or two customer-service related programs
that you've done that you're particularly proud of.
§ Tell me about a time when you made a lasting, positive
impression on a customer.
QUESTIONS TO ASSESS COMMUNICATION
SKILLS
§ You attend a weekly staff meeting with your supervisor. How
do you communicate it to your reporting staff and coworkers?
§ Information you believe to be untrue or confidential has
reached you via the grapevine. What actions will you take?
§ Example of a time when you were part of a project or team
and you never knew what was happening.
§ Rate your communication skills on a scale of 1 to 10
§ Describe the work environment or culture and its communication
style in which you experience the most success.
§ Describe five things about the communication within an
organization that must be present for you to work most effectively?
§ How often do you believe it is necessary to withhold
information under what circumstances do you limit communication in your
experience?
§ How have you handled a
boss, who fails to adequately communicate?
§ When you have entered a new workplace in the past, describe
how you have gone about meeting and developing relationships with your new
coworkers, supervisors, and reporting staff.
QUESTION: WHAT ARE YOUR WEAKNESSES
§ Conventional Approach : State a weakness that is really a
positive or translating a weakness into a positive like “I'm a workaholic and I
spend lots of hours at work ensuring I do my job to th e best of my abilities.”
§ Interviewers want to see how you handle this & what your
response indicates about you.
§ Highlight your strengths for this position
§ Highlight an area
that you are working to improve upon
§ Describe what you are doing to improve
§ Describe how this new skill improves your value to the
company & Finally, ask a question.
EXAMPLE
“While there are
several strengths I bring to this position, including being a top performer in
my previous position and possessing strong industry knowledge, I am currently
working to enhance my knowledge in the areas of business finance. I feel
this is important because it allows me to directly relate products and services
to customer's return-on-investment and to recommend department cost saving
initiatives.
Would you like me to elaborate on either of these?”
Would you like me to elaborate on either of these?”
NOTE : Asking a question will make the interview more conversational and avoid it becoming an interrogation.
QUESTION: WHY SHOULD WE HIRE YOU?
To answer this type
of question, it is vital that you know yourself, your strengths, your skills
and abilities and be able to communicate these characteristics effectively.
When a recruiter asks such a question an invitation is being made to you to confirm or change a decision the interviewer has been forming about you.
The interviewer may have decided that you are appropriate to proceed with to the next level and is merely looking for an affirmation of what he thinks you bring to the table, or he may be looking for signs that confirm a negative view he/she has and wants to see if the impressions are correct.
If this is asked of you in the beginning of an interview and you have no clue about what the hiring manager is seeking, it is very important that you have a clear idea of what you are going to say beforehand. What are the areas that you have had most success in? What are you good at doing? What do you enjoy doing? What have bosses and team members said about you that highlights your value to the organization?
On the contrary, if you are asked this question towards the end of the interview, quickly review in your mind what the recruiter said were important ingredients to success in performance of the job. Tell the interviewer the reasons why you are the “Best Fit”. The more details you give, the better your answer will be. This is not the time to talk about what you want. Rather, it is a time to summarize your accomplishments and relate what qualities makes you unique.
For Example:
"From our conversation, it sounds as if you're looking for someone to come in and join immediately. It also sounds as if you are facing problems with your financial modules. With my five years of experience working with financial modules, I have saved my company’s expenditure by streamlining the process. My high energy and learning abilities enable me to resolve problems easily. My co-workers would tell you that I'm a team player who has the ability to stay focused in stressful situations and can be counted on during testing times. I'm confident that I will be a great addition to your team”.
Also, think of two or three key qualities you have to offer that match those the employer is seeking. Don't underestimate your personal qualities that makes you unique; your attitude, personality type, working style and people skills are all very relevant to a job. However, if you come across as nervous or unaware of what you have to contribute, then that impression will be left with the interviewer and there will be less chances of progressing to the next level.
When a recruiter asks such a question an invitation is being made to you to confirm or change a decision the interviewer has been forming about you.
The interviewer may have decided that you are appropriate to proceed with to the next level and is merely looking for an affirmation of what he thinks you bring to the table, or he may be looking for signs that confirm a negative view he/she has and wants to see if the impressions are correct.
If this is asked of you in the beginning of an interview and you have no clue about what the hiring manager is seeking, it is very important that you have a clear idea of what you are going to say beforehand. What are the areas that you have had most success in? What are you good at doing? What do you enjoy doing? What have bosses and team members said about you that highlights your value to the organization?
On the contrary, if you are asked this question towards the end of the interview, quickly review in your mind what the recruiter said were important ingredients to success in performance of the job. Tell the interviewer the reasons why you are the “Best Fit”. The more details you give, the better your answer will be. This is not the time to talk about what you want. Rather, it is a time to summarize your accomplishments and relate what qualities makes you unique.
For Example:
"From our conversation, it sounds as if you're looking for someone to come in and join immediately. It also sounds as if you are facing problems with your financial modules. With my five years of experience working with financial modules, I have saved my company’s expenditure by streamlining the process. My high energy and learning abilities enable me to resolve problems easily. My co-workers would tell you that I'm a team player who has the ability to stay focused in stressful situations and can be counted on during testing times. I'm confident that I will be a great addition to your team”.
Also, think of two or three key qualities you have to offer that match those the employer is seeking. Don't underestimate your personal qualities that makes you unique; your attitude, personality type, working style and people skills are all very relevant to a job. However, if you come across as nervous or unaware of what you have to contribute, then that impression will be left with the interviewer and there will be less chances of progressing to the next level.
QUESTIONS ASKING YOU WHY YOU LEFT THE LAST JOB
1. Be Succinct - “My
Company merged with another firm and the new management wanted to bring in
their own team. Prior to the merger I was a strong performer with positive
performance reviews."
2. Provide References
and Proof - Provide references from a former colleague and boss to verify
his performance. Demonstrating a confidence and willingness to provide
references to support your reasons for leaving is a powerful way to ensure you
are believed.
3. Tell the Truth in
Balance Interviewers want to know that you were not the problem and to
understand how you handled yourself. Don't just state the circumstances
of your departure; also add any facts that positively reflect on your
performance.
4. Tell what you
learned. - Demonstrates you are a life-long learner & you look on the positive
side .
5. Speak Positively -
Any negativity will only reflect negatively on you. Do not express anger.
6. Tell the Truth- Do
not speculate on the motives or feeling of the other people involved in the
events of your departure. Focus only on the facts of what happened and what you
did.
7. Look them in the Eye
this will convey your confidence, communicate that this is the truth and that
you have nothing to hide.
8. Practice and Conquer
Your Fear. Write out your response and
practice saying it. First, practice responding out loud to yourself and then
practice saying it to another person. Ask a friend to practice interview you.
Ask them to ask you this question ("Why did you leave your last company?”)
and a couple other questions you fear most. Practice until you are comfortable.
QUESTION - Why did you leave the Previous Company
"Why did you
leave (or seeking to leave) your company?"
Be Succinct Do not go
into great details unless they ask you for the details Provide References
and Proof Bart could then say he is happy to provide references from a former
colleague and boss to verify his performance. Demonstrating a confidence and
willingness to provide references to support your reasons for leaving is a
powerful way to ensure you are believed.
Tell the Truth in Balance
Interviewers want to know that you were not t he problem and to understand how you handled yourself. Don't just state the circumstances of your departure; also add any facts that positively reflect on your performance.
What Did You Learn
This is also an
opportunity to describe what you learned and how you will handle things
differently in the future. Describing what you learned demonstrates that you
are a life-long learner
Speak Positively
State the facts in a positive manner. Any negativity you express will only reflect negatively on you. If you're angry about the situation, you'll need to process that anger in another manner before you interview.
Tell the Truth
Do not speculate on the motives or feeling of the other people involved in the events of your departure. Focus only on the facts of what happened and what you did.
Look them in the Eye
Most of us instinctively sense deception. Look the interviewer in the eyes when responding. This will convey your confidence, communicate that this is the truth and that you have nothing to hi de.
Practice and Conquer Your Fear
Write out your response and practice saying it. First, practice responding out loud to yourself and then practice saying it to another person. Ask a friend to practice interview you. Ask them to ask you this question ("Why did you leave your last company?”) and a couple other questions you fear most. Practice until you are comfortable with the words you say and how you deliver them.
QUESTION: Why do you want to change the
industry or career?
This is normal and healthy. However, you must
have a well structured response
"I'm
concerned that you don't have any previous experience in this field (or
industry). “
The strategy is to focus on what you do have
rather than what you don't have.
YOUR RESPONSE
First: “That's a good concern. I'd like to share with you some additional information about that.”
Second: “From my previous experience, industry research and informational interviews, I've learned that to be successful in this career (or this industry) requires the following :
(a)
(b)
Third: List your strengths and highlight how they will be useful to the company.
Third: List your strengths and highlight how they will be useful to the company.
EXAMPLE “A Passionate
attention to detail, persistence & unwavering focus on results, staying
current on industry dynamics and professional certifications, as well as
the flexibility and intellectual agility to respond to constant change.”
Fourth: You ask a question. “I can give you specific examples where I've demonstrated each of these talents. Which of these qualities would you like me to elaborate upon?”
QUESTIONS TO ASSESS SALARY DESIRED
ASKED FIRST TIME“I was paid well in my last position and in-line with market conditions and the results I delivered. I will be happy to discuss my compensation history in detail when we have decided that I'm the right person for this position.”
IF ASKED AGAIN“I
realize that you need to make certain that my salary expectations are
consistent with the salary range. To ensure we are aligned, please tell me the
salary range and I'll let you know how my salary matches the range.”
IF ASKED A THIRD TIME
“When deciding on a position I consider the following factors; quality of the
opportunity, quality of the company and the people I'd be working with, long
term growth potential , location and compensation. Compensation is the least
important criteria I use to evaluate a position. So far I'm impressed with what
I have learned about this opportunity and remain very interested.”
NOTE: Remember that
the first person to give a number is at a disadvantage. You want to discuss
salary only when they are absolutely convinced they can't live without you. It
is at this point that you have negotiating leverage and not until then.
QUESTIONS YOU MAY ASK DURING AN
INTERVIEW
Interviewers are more impressed with your questions than any selling points
Interviewers are more impressed with your questions than any selling points
Write your questions
by starting with “What” or “How”. Limit
“Why” questions because these cause the interviewer to defend or justify
a decision or condition.
Never inquire about
“What you get.” For example, questions like “How much vacation time do
new employees get?” or “How much sick time off do I get?” These questions
send the message that you are most interested in what you can get rather than
what you can do for the company.
The following are
examples of questions you can ask. These examples are presented to
encourage you to write your own questions.
Be as company and
industry specific as possible when creating your own questions.
EXAMPLES
What are the key
businesses reasons driving the need for this position?
Describe the three
top challenges that I'll face in this job?
What has to happen
for you to know you've hired the best person?
What are the key
deliverables and outcomes that this position must achieve?
Describe the top
three initiatives for your company/department and how this position is linked
to these initiatives.
What are the key
metrics for measuring success in this position?
What competitors do you
feel present the strongest competition?
How do you feel my
style will compliment the team culture?
How would you
describe the qualities of the most successful people at your company?
How to assess Organizational Culture
Culture - values,
behaviors, beliefs, and norms - expressed through words and behaviors
Cultural Indicators.
- How you are treated? What phrases are frequently used by the interviewers? Is
there a theme or unspoken tone to the questions you're asked? How doe s the
environment feel to you? How prepared are the interviewers? Are they on time?
Were you given an interview schedule? Were you treated like a prisoner or a
guest? Are your responses to their questions treated with suspicion or
professional curiosity? How considerate is the company recruiter?
Questions
Please describe the
company or department culture in three words or three phrases.
How does t he company
(team) handle conflict or differing opinions?
How does the company
recognize employee accomplishments?
Does the company have a "Code of Ethics?
Does the company have a "Code of Ethics?
Please describe the
leadership or managerial style at your company?
What qualities do the
most successful employees in your company possess?
What is the company's
attitude towards professional and educational advancement?
HOW TO IMPROVE WITH EVERY INTERVIEW YOU UNDERGO
§ REHERSE PERFECT ANSWERS
After an Interview go
back home and write down important questions asked and answer them in a perfect
way how you would have desired
§ PRACTICE
Write out your
response and practice saying it. First, practice responding out loud to
yourself and then practice saying it to another person. Ask a friend to
practice interview you. Ask them to ask you this question ("Why did you
leave your last company?”) and a couple other questions you fear most. Practice
until you are comfortable with the words you say and how you deliver them.
§ RECORD LEARNING FROM ALL PREVIOUS JOBS
Embrace the
opportunity to describe what you learned from a recent job and how you will
handle a similar situation in the future. Describing what you learned
demonstrates that you are a life-long learner and you look on the positive side
of most
COMMON MISTAKES IN AN INTERVIEW
Interrogation is one
sided questioning and Interview is 2 sided. Having no questions
prepared indicates you are not interested and not prepared. Interviewers
are more impressed by the questions you ask than the selling points you
try to make. Before each interview, make a list of 5 questions you will ask.
Making a Positive out
of a Weakness "I'm a perfectionist" and turn it into a positive.
Interviewers are not fooled. Highlight a skill that you wish to improve upon
and describe what you are proactively doing to enhance your skill. The question
and what your answer indicates about you.
Only Researching the
Company, What about You? Job seekers must research themselves by taking
inventory of their experience, knowledge and skills. Formulating a talent
inventory prepares you to immediately respond to any question about your
experience. You must be prepared to discuss any part of your background.
Leaving Cell Phone On: We may live in a wired,
always available society, but a ringing cell phone is not appropriate for an
interview. Turn it off before you enter the company.
Waiting for a Call: Time is your enemy after
the interview. After you send a thank you email and note to every
interviewer, follow-up a couple days later with either a question or additional
information. Contact the person who can hire you , not HR (Human
Resources). Additional information can be details about your talents, a
recent competitor's press release or industry trends. Your intention is to keep
their memory of your fresh.
2nd & 3rd
INTERVIEW
- Have different
expectations and they're more comfortable with you.
- They expect you to be
more informed about company and express enthusiasm for the position.
- Questions focused on
company, industry, market, key position deliverables, and competition.
- The difference is
they've heard good things about you and expect you're a strong candidate. But
they'll still have to be convinced. With 1st time interviewers, conduct
yourself like it's your 1st interview because this is your 1st interview with
these evaluators.
Questions you ask
during 1st interviews include:
- What are the key
businesses reasons driving the need for this position?
- Describe the three
top challenges that I'll face in this job?
- What has to happen
for you to know you've hired the best person?
- What are the key
deliverables that this position must achieve?
- What are the key
metrics used to measure success?
Questions you ask during 2nd interviews include:
- Please describe three
company initiatives and how the position is linked.
- What competitors do
you feel present the strongest competition?
- What market dynamics
do you feel will have the greatest impact?
2nd
interviews include meeting higher levels who are unskilled but they're
more comfortable interviewing and asking unorthodox questions. You may be asked
to deliver a presentation. Panel interviews (multiple interviewers
simultaneously), problem solving/simulation interviews, personality tests,
mealtime interviews are also common on 2nd interviews. In 3rd interviews you'll
be questioned about your salary expectations and possible start date.
INTERVIEW IS NOT SELLING
§ Interviews are NOT Selling Events
§ More like Playing Darts Blindfolded
§ The target is mental criteria each interviewer is measuring
you against.
§ Only 3-4 “Darts of
talent” can be thrown at the target
§ Locate target and decide which three “talent darts” by
asking questions.
§ Asking one of these “opening questions” at the start of each
interview
§ Did you Score? After you present each talent-dart, check by
asking a follow-up question.
§ Follow-up questions will get interviewer feedback on
the effectiveness of your answers. Asking follow-up questions will also
influence the course of the interview. Job interviewers are just like playing
darts blindfolded. If you don't ask questions you'll be in the dark, miss the
target and loose the game. Ask opening and follow-up questions to win this dart
game.
§ But remember you should not overdo it
5 INTERVIEW TIPS
1. What are you looking for?
Interviewing is just like playing darts. The interviewer's screening criteria is the target and each dimension of your talent is represented by a dart. At the start of the interview you must find the target and decide which 3 "experience darts" to present. "What skills do you feel are required to be successful in this position?" is an effective question for you to ask at the start ("opening phase") of the interview.
2. Ask Questions:
It is your responsibility to make sure the interview is an interview and not an interrogation. You do this by asking questions throughout the interview.
3. Specific Examples:
Interviewers ask questions about your past experience to predict your future performance. In response to their questions provide specific examples of your work and life experience. Focus on the actions you took and the results achieved. Interviewers are less interested in what "the team did" or what you were "responsible for".
4. How do you like me so far?
At the conclusion of each interview ask the interviewer for their opinion of your background. Ask them what t they feel your strengths are and what concerns they have about your ability. Interviewers form opinions based on a 45 minute interview. The potential for misunderstanding is enormous. Ask a couple questions at the end to make sure they understand your experience accurately.
5. Visual Aids:
Bring visual aids whenever applicable to convey the quality of your work. You can even prepare a few PowerPoint slides or one page document to communicate the quality of your work. Visual aids can include anything that you feel conveys what you have done and what you can do.
NETWORKING & GETTING AN INTERVIEW CALL (RULES)
§ Make a personal connection with everyone you contact.
§ Speak in your own voice and words.
§ Keep track of every contact and schedule your follow-up
calls.
§ Walk around when you make the calls.
§ Describe what you're looking for in detail.
§ Ask for what you want specifically.
§ Commit to making a few calls every day.
§ Set your pace and keep going.
§ Get over any hurdles. Keep contacting people.
Your goal is to build
your network of contacts, then the job will find you.
Eight Habits of Highly Ineffective Communicators
1. The Argumentative Communicator:
·
Ask yourself: Do you find yourself
saying “BUT” often in your communication with others?
·
Are U constantly offering your
opposing opinion when it is not asked for?
·
Do you enjoy playing the Devil’s
advocate?
·
Please Consider: There is a way to
give your opinion. When U continue to oppose the comments of your listener, U
run the risk of making him feel wrong, stupid or uninformed.
2. The Comparison Maker:
·
Ask Yourself: When someone shares
his feelings, do start yours and start comparing both the experiences/ events
etc.?
·
Please Consider: When someone
shares, the need may be to express and ventilate, comparisons block the other
person because U may not have considered the matter from his point of view, he
may be willing to buy your prescription.
3. The Better - Than Talker:
·
This is similar to the Comparison
maker but with a more condescending tone. The better than talker is not
comparing for purposes of being compassionate, but for the purpose of creating
superiority. He is interested in feeling superior to the person he is speaking
to, that requires the listener feel inferior.
·
Please consider: The difference
between talker and communicator is that the communicator is making an effort to
arrive at understanding. A Talker rambles endlessly without intending for both
the people to benefit from “conversation.”When the listener feels inferior, the
talker is not in rapport and any hope for connection is lost.
4. The Hear My Old Baggage Communicator:
·
Ask yourself: Why do you have the
need to be rescued, seeking sympathy from others. Seeking sympathy is not
unreasonable.
·
Please Consider: The old baggage
places an obligation on your listener to feel something which he may not want
to feel for U. U also reflect feeling of sadness, despair and helplessness.
That may not be of interest to everyone around U. Be discretionary of choosing
your listener to fulfill your need to be sympathized, helped, and attended
to.
5. The Judgmental Communicator:
·
There is a difference between
observation and judgement. Being judgmental involves rights and wrong, good or
bad according to your frame of reference but posing it applicable to the whole
world.
·
Please consider: If U judge others,
U may think that U are doing it to gain rapport or be on their side. Being
judgmental reflects that U are internally not aligned with yourself and that
you have a need to judge others in order to feel better than what they are.
Don’t play into that trap. Respond in a way that strengthens your position of
self respect and self esteem.
6. The Interrupting Communicator:
·
When someone interrupts U, U know
that they believe what they have to say is more important than what U have to
say. You know they think they are better than YOU!
·
Please Consider: Take a breath after
your partner has finished before you speak. In that breath you are saying that
I heard what you said, I am taking in, I appreciate your
communication.
7. The Complaining Communicator:
·
Complainers face the same trouble as
the Baggage Communicators. Being persistent complainant, you will create negative
feelings in others and push people away rather than draw them nearer.
Complaining should be avoided in communication with those whom you do business
and those whom you love.
8. The Gossiping Communicator:
·
Gossip is perhaps the most evil, deadly,
miserable way to communicate. Don’t see it, don’t participate in it, and don’t
respond to it. You are giving away so much of who U are when U spread or even
listen to the gossip. AS a gossiper, U reflect that U are very insecure,
your self esteem is dependent on finding faults in others, your world honors
the small, weak and petty. Hence seriously evaluate any need that U may have to
gossip.
·
Wisdom is, knowing that your
thoughts shape your experience.
TRAINING PROGRAMME ON COMMUNICATION (OBJECTIVES)
·
Communication, its process and
types.
·
The importance of communication.
·
Your role as effective
communicators.
·
The Relationship of communication
with respect to day-to-day functioning and building good inter-personal skills.
·
The various barriers to
communication and overcome them with respect to building trust, motivating team
members, giving and receiving constructive feedback for increasing productivity
through effective and assertive communication.
COMMUNICATION
Communication is defined as “the process of the flow (
transmission and reception) of goal – oriented messages between sources, in a
pattern, and through a medium or media.
ELEMENTS OF COMMUNICATION
·
Communication is a process.
·
Communication involves transmitting
information and understanding it.
·
Communication is goal oriented.
·
Communication requires channel or
medium.
·
Communication is multi-dimensional.
PROCESS OF COMMUNICATION & TYPES OF COMMUNICATION
·
Verbal and Non – Verbal
Communication
·
Formal and Informal Communication
·
Upward, Downward and Horizontal
Communication
VERBAL COMMUNICATION
·
Oral Communication
·
Written Communication
NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION
·
Body language
·
Kinesics, Proxemics &
Paralanguage
·
Intention
·
Manner: directness, sincerity
·
Dress and clothing (style, color,
·
appropriateness for situation)
·
Signs &
Symbols.
IMPORTANCE OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
·
7 % of communication happens through
words
·
93% of communication happens through
non-verbal cues of which:
o
55% through facial expressions
o
38% through vocal tones
NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION (INTERESTING THINGS ABOUT BODY
LANGUAGE)
·
It has no words or sentences, but it
does send bits of information that combine into messages.
·
Those messages, which are sometimes
clear and sometimes fuzzy, are mostly about your feelings.
·
People can learn to read those
messages with a fair degree of accuracy.
·
You cannot not have body language-
you are sending messages nonverbally all the time. Especially when you are
trying not to!
·
Your preferred body positions and
movements do say something about the kind of person you are.
·
If your words say one thing and your
body another then people will believe your body, not your words.
·
You can change how you’re feeling by
consciously changing your body language.
TYPES OF NON VERBAL COMMUNICATIONS
·
Kinesics
·
Proxemics
·
Paralanguage
KINESICS
·
Eye contact and facial expressions
·
Gestures
·
Postures
PROXMICS
·
Public space
Over 12 feet
·
Social
Space 4 to 12 feet
·
Personal
Space 18 inches to 4 feet
·
Intimate
space 0 to 18 inches
PARA LANGUAGE
·
Cues one can pick up from an
individual’s voice:
·
Tone
·
Rate of speech
·
Accent
·
Pronunciation
·
Not WHAT you say but HOW you say
it!!
EXAMPLES OF FORMAL COMMUNICATIONS
·
Office Order
·
Rules & Regulations
·
Policies
·
Guidelines
·
Work Instruction
TYPES OF INFORMAL COMMUNICATION (Grapevine)
·
Straight Line pattern
·
Informal Star Pattern
·
Probability Pattern
·
Cluster Net Pattern
TYPES OF COMMUNICATIONS DIRECTION WISE
·
Upward Communication
·
Downward Communication
·
Lateral Communication
MEDIA OF ORGANIZATIONAL COMMUNICATIONS
·
Employee Handbook
·
In House Magazines e.g. “Live Wire”
·
Statement covering Personnel
Policies
·
Notice board
·
Information center
PSYCHOLOGICAL BARRIERS
·
Personal Emotion
·
Biases
·
Lack of trust
·
Premature Evaluation.
·
Expert Language
·
Sign & symbols
PHYSICAL BARRIERS
·
Geographical distance
·
Mechanical failure
·
Physical obstruction
·
Technological malfunction
·
Time lag
ORGANIZATIONAL BARRIERS
·
Rules & Regulations
·
Policies
·
Hierarchy
·
Culture
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATIONS
You can have the greatest ideas in the world, but they
are no good to your company, or your career, if you can’t express them clearly
and persuasively
OVERCOMING BARRIERS (ABC
of Constructive Communication)
A - Approach
B - Build Bridges
C - Customize
your communication
Approach is the manner of addressing both the person and the
subject
Building Bridges: Respect, Trust, Commonality
Customize: Seek first to understand, before being understood
7Cs of COMMUNICATIONS
1.
Credibility
2.
Capability
3.
Content
4.
Context
5.
Channel
6.
Consistency
7.
Clarity
LISTENING
·
Receive
·
Interpret
·
Evaluate
·
Remember
·
Respond
BARRIERS FOR EFFECTIVE LISTENING
·
Pre-judgement- Listeners who jump to
conclusions
·
Self-centeredness – Shift attention
from speaker to themselves
·
Selective Listening – Tune the
speaker out
·
Wandering mind – Your mind processes
information four times faster than rate of speech.
LET OTHER PEOPLE KNOW YOU ARE LISTENING
S:
Stand or sit
straight, turn your face squarely to the other and smile
O:
Have an open body
position
L:
Lean towards
the other person slightly
E:
Maintain Eye contact and make Encouraging noises
R:
Relax and be
comfortable
HOW TO IMPROVE LISTENING SKILLS
·
Look beyond the speaker’s style
·
Fight distractions
·
Provide Feedback
·
Listen actively
ACTIVE LISTENING
·
Listen for concepts, key ideas and
facts.
·
Be able to distinguish between
evidence and argument, idea and example, fact and principle.
·
Analyze the key points
·
Look for unspoken messages in the speaker’s
tone of voice or expressions
·
Keep an open mind.
·
Ask questions that clarify.
·
Reserve judgment until the speaker
has finished
·
Take meaningful notes that are brief
and to the point
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
·
Johari Window
·
Life Position
Speaking…
“A wise man reflects before he speaks; A fool speaks, and
then reflects on what he has uttered.”- French Proverb.
WHILE SPEAKING
·
Take initiative
·
Be polite
·
Be pleasant (smile, jokes)
·
Be clear and concise (tone, accent,
emphasis, pronunciation)
·
Cite negative opinions honestly, but
in a positive manner
·
Seek Feedback
WHILE SPEAKING OVER PHONE
·
Write down in advance what you want
to say and in what order
·
Smile
·
Speak slowly
·
Always be polite and friendly
·
For long messages, follow a script
·
Get confirmation
·
Monitor your time
WRITING SKILLS
·
Clarity in Writing…
·
Rs 1000000000
·
Rs. 10,00,00,000/-
·
Rs. 10 Crore
WHILE WRITING
·
Plan what you want to say in your
letter/report
·
Reread the letter when you have
finished
·
Check spelling & punctuation,
then send
·
Use simple language – avoid
ambiguous words
“KISS” (Edit the letter by cutting ruthlessly).
·
Be kind to others’ eyes (font size,
clarity)
·
Be creative (use tables, graphs)
· Use the language YOU are better at
KEEP IN MIND WHILE WRITING
·
Visualize the reader when you are
writing
·
Don’t write unbroken
paragraphs
·
Use numbered paragraphs to make
cross-referencing easier
·
Punctuation plays the role of body
language in writing
·
Use headings and subheadings.
·
Use ruled sheets instead of plain
ones.
·
Don’t print without thoroughly
checking your sources.
LISTENING
·
to receive information
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to understand effectively
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to enhance clarity
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to empathize
WHILE LISTENING
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Avoid distractions
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Do not interrupt unnecessarily
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Be active (show interest)
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Paraphrase what you’ve heard
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Throw an echo
WHAT LISTENING LOOKS LIKE
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The Listener keeps looking at the
speaker
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The Listener’s body is in ‘open’
position
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The listener is smiling with a
pleasant &encouraging expression
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Listener looks relaxed but alert,
neither tense nor slouching
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Listener utters humming sounds
UNDERSTANDING COMMUNICATIONS in a Company (Dr. COLONEL JC
JOHN)
Definition. Communication
is the transfer of information, ideas, understanding or feelings among people.
Importance.
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Most Important subject (both
personal & professional).
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Not taught but learned (e.g.
Gandhi).
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Not theory but practical.
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Norms for communication laid down in
a company - Rules for the class.
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Affects Productivity &
profitability affecting.
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Not only speaking but written, e
mail, phone call, body language
Management –
is defined as the process of getting things done through the efforts of other
people. Hence Managers have to communicate. The most significant feature
of communication is that it is learned.
Channels of Communication
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Formal Communication Channel : Are the communication
channel that are officially recognized by the organization.
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Information Channel: Are ways of transmitting
information within an organization that bypass formal channels.
Formal Downward Channels
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Chain of command,
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The House Organ,
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Letters and Pay inserts,
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Loud speaker systems,
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Annual report, Employee Hand Book
& Pamphlets etc.
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Chain of Command
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Face-to-face interaction.
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Ask questions.
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Written documents
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Letters & Memorandums
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Middle level managers -Translation
into the languages of subordinates
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Permanent information such as
policies, procedures and rules
The House Organ
News letters or newspapers – contains new products, how well the company is doing, about the policies. Has wide readership. Depends a lot on Personal interest
Formal Upward Channels.
Participative management requires a two way communication. These channels are necessary not only to determine if subordinates have understood the information set downward but also to satisfy the need of subordinates to be involved. A communication effectiveness survey of thousands of employees showed that only half believed that significant upward communication was present.
INFORMAL COMMUNICATION CHANNELS
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Either lateral or diagonal
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Benefits from established personal
relationships and mutual trust.
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Productivity
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Not an automatic process, trust must
first develop
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Immediate supervisors might take
offense.
Grapevine :
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Transmits information more rapidly,
sometimes not as accurately. Primary sources of current information.
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Basic characteristics: Every
Direction.
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Who receives the information?
Some people are tuned into it and some managers are not even aware of the
grapevine.
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Beyond the formal organization.
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Communication Networks - The
pathways through which messages between and among people in organization flow
are Communication Networks.
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Identifying the predominant
structural configuration however, helps explain or predict.
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The links of the wheel, chain and Y
receive less information than the links of the circle and the completely
connected network.
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Completely connected, Feedback,
Sharing of the leadership responsibility and decentralization.
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Newly formed a wheel configuration.
BARRIERS TO COMMUNICATIONS
Technical Barriers: Environmental barriers to communication are referred to as technical barriers.
Timing – the determination of when a message should be communicated is timing.
Information overload- The condition that exists when an individual is presented with two much information in too short a time is information overload.
Cultural differences- Middle East, giving another person a deadline is considered rude and the deadline is likely to be ignored. If a client in U.S. is kept waiting the client is perceived to have low status. In Japan delays mean no slackening of interest and delay is often a negotiation tactic. Indians conduct most business at an interpersonal distance of five to eight feet; a distance of one to three feet suggests more personal. Spacious, well-furnished and located on the top floor it conveys an aura of prestige. In the Middle East décor of the office mean little, in France Managers likely to be located in the midst of their subordinates in order to control them.
Language Barriers
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Vocabulary – type of audience,
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vocabulary sets
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tailor the message to match the
knowledge base of the receiver
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concentrate their messages in the
common vocabulary base
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Semantics – JARGON is a special language that
group members use in their daily interaction. Many firms provide new employees
a list of definitions of terms associated with the particular industry.
Psychological Barriers
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Information filtering – The process by which a message is altered through the
elimination of certain data as the communication moves from person to person in
the organization is Information filtering. Has two purpose:1) Management
Control 2) Evaluate Performance
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Lack of trust & openness
§ Receptive to employees ideas
§ Order should never be questioned, communication tends to be
shifted.
§ Japanese business success :Managers trust their peers and
superiors, simple organization structure.
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Jealousy
§ Managers competence may actually be viewed by peers and
superiors as a threat to their security.
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Preoccupation
§ Respond in certain predictable through in appropriate
ways.
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Hearing
§ Hear what we expect to hear, not what is actually said.
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Perception set differences
§ A fixed tendency to interpret information in a certain way
is a perception set.
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Noise
§ Anything that interferes with the accurate transmission or
reception of messages is NOISE.
Barrier to Effective Group Communication
§ Parties with a competitive attitude
§ Win-lose
§ Own objectives
§ Own needs but publicly disguise
§ Aggrandize their power
§ Threats to get submission
§ Overemphasize own needs, objectives, positions
§ Exploiting the other party
§ Superiority of their own position
§ Isolate the other person
§ “We they” perspective
THE GRIEVANCE PROCEDURE
SPECIAL MEETINGS - Monthly departmental meetings.
OPEN-DOOR POLICY
Talking directly with workers
By Pass immediate supervisors
Reduce tension
Improve trust
THE GRIEVANCE PROCEDURE
Some managers believe a formal grievance procedure weakens their authority.
OMBUDSPERSON
Complaint officer
Top Management eyes and ears
Uncover scandals in their organization.
SPECIAL MEETINGS - Monthly departmental meetings.
QUESTIONS TO
ASSESS INTERPERSONAL SKILLS
When you had to work closely with a
coworker whom you disliked. How did you make the relationship work so you could
succeed for your company?
When you disagreed with the decisions
of your manager or supervisor. Was the situation resolved to your satisfaction
or did nothing change?
When you worked with a friend. What
did you do to ensure that the friendship bore positive results for your
company?
How did you resolve a conflict? What
happened to the coworker or team?
Describe behaviors, actions, or
attitudes you are most likely to conflict with at work? Give an example of a situation you addressed in
the past? How was it resolved?
Name factors that make you an
effective, valued coworker in your current job? What would your supervisor say
are the three most important factors?
If you have reporting staff, how would
these staff members describe you?
Describe a time when you demonstrated
that you have the ability and desire to work effectively with your coworkers.
When you have entered a new workplace,
describe how you have gone about meeting and developing relationships with your
new coworkers, supervisors, and reporting staff.
QUESTIONS TO TEST
MOTIVATION
Environment or culture in which you
are most productive and happy.
Imagine you got national award five
years from now. Why? Circumstances?
What goals, including career goals,
have you set for your life?
Define “success” for your career? Now
& at the end of your work life.
Example of how you motivated another
person.
QUESTIONS TO ASSESS TEAMS AND TEAM WORK
Give an example of a successful
project , your role& why it succeeded?
Describe two situations from your past
work experience in which you have determined a team was the best potential
solution to a problem, a needed process improvement, or a planned change. How
did each work out?
What actions and support, in your
experience, make a team successful?
Give me an example of a time when your
work group or department worked especially well with another work group or
department to accomplish a goal.
Have you been a member of a team that
struggled or failed to accomplish its goal? If so, what assessment did you make
of the reasons for the failure.
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